Pre-Wedding Photoshoot Tips: Posing, Outfits & Confidence Hacks

Merrygohearts Weddings
Jul 16
3 min read

There’s something magical about the “almost-married” phase. You’re not a bride or groom yet, but you're also not “just dating” anymore. You're floating somewhere between “Can’t believe this is happening!” and “OMG we have nothing to wear for the shoot.”

Enter the pre-wedding photoshoot.

No, it’s not just a photoshoot. It’s your soft launch as a married couple. It’s where your vibe, your chemistry, your inside jokes, and that one iconic nose-crinkle laugh all get documented for eternity (and Instagram, of course).

If the idea of posing in front of a camera makes you sweat more than your wedding day outfit; breathe. We’ve got you.

Let’s Talk Poses (Even if You Think You’re Awkward)

You do not need to be a model. You just need to be in love (and okay with a little PDA). Here are some effortless pose ideas:

The “Walk & Laugh” – Walk naturally, talk about your honeymoon plans or your worst dance move. The candidness is gold.
The “Almost Kiss” – Lean in close, but don’t kiss. Hold the moment. Trust us..it’s swoon-worthy on camera.

The “Forehead Touch” – Soft, emotional, and it hides that height difference you keep joking about.

The “Lift & Spin” – A classic, if your back and outfit are up for it. Go slow; we’ll catch the moment mid-spin.

Confidence Tip: The best poses come from moments when you’re genuinely vibing with each other. Forget the camera. Think of it as a date where someone happens to be clicking pics in the bushes (not creepy at all…we promise).

Outfit Inspo Without the Panic Attack

Let’s get this out of the way, you don’t need 6 outfit changes and a stylist who only works with celebrities.

Here’s the golden rule: wear what feels like you, but polished.

Match the Location: Flowy dresses and linen shirts for garden shoots, structured blazers and glam gowns for city rooftops, earthy tones and traditional wear for heritage spots.
Coordinate, Don’t Clone: No identical colours unless you're going for twinsies. Think complementary shades (dusty pink + olive green? Yes. Neon yellow + neon yellow? Maybe not.)
Comfort = Confidence: If you’re adjusting straps or can’t breathe in that fitted kurta, it’s going to show on your face..do we really want that?

Confidence Tip: Have a backup outfit you love (the one that always makes you feel and look hot). In case of nerves, that’ll be your superhero suit.

Confidence Hacks for Camera Shy Couples

Practice at home. Seriously. Set a timer, pose like no one’s watching (because no one is). Helps loosen you up.
Bring your props. Coffee cups, sunglasses, dupattas, books, even your dog or cat..let’s not discriminate. It gives your hands something to do and adds to the story.
Play music. Your shoot, your playlist. It instantly sets the mood and drowns out the awkward silence.
Talk to your photographer. (Hiii, that’s us!!) We’ll guide you gently, get you laughing, and catch you at your best angles..without yelling “Say cheese!”

Mini Pep Talk: You don’t have to perform. You just have to show up. The magic? That’s already in the two of you.

Bonus Tips for Shoots in Bangalore, Hyderabad & Dubai

Bangalore: Quarry Sunset Point…Raw, rustic, and ethereal white quarry stones, a serene lake, and sunset that paints your photos in soft, golden hues or go for that modern, boutique-resort vibe at Elements; open spaces, styled lounges, and just enough charm to make your shoot feel like a breezy weekend getaway (but with better outfits).

Hyderabad: Catch the soft sunrise at Ameenpur Lake or wander through the arches at Qutb Shahi Tombs..it’s all old-world charm, golden light, and just the right amount of drama.

Dubai: Golden hour by the beach or dramatic shots in Al Seef’s alleys. Stay hydrated..camera-ready glow, not dehydration-glow.

Let’s Make Pre-Wedding Shoots Fun Again

At Merrygohearts, we don’t just show up with a camera. We show up with vibes. We’ll fix your dupatta, tell you when your necklace is crooked, and catch that one look that says, “I can’t wait to marry you.”

Whether you're shooting in your own city or turning it into a full-blown destination adventure..we’re here for it. Misty hills? Desert alleys? Secret beaches with no strangers in sight? Say the word, and we’ll pack our gear (and sunscreen).

Ready to turn those butterflies into beautiful memories?

Let’s make some magic; minus the awkward posing and plus a whole lot of heart.

Say hi to Merrygohearts. We’re all in; clicks, chemistry, and candid chaos.